The other day I was conversing with a client about the problems he was having in his life and business. Most of Dreams’ clients are rather successful individuals not only in business but to some degree in their personal lives as well. This is not to say their lives are ideal but there is a common thread about the type of man we attract.
This client, let’s call him George, was hitting a ruff spot in his life and career and things were beginning to go south. The one thing he has always been impressed with is the professionalism and consistency of Dreams personnel. Hey what owner wouldn’t love to get compliments about his people I know I do. He said, “I wish I had the kind of success with my people you have with yours.”
I thought about that for a second and I said “Well, why don’t you?” He sighed for a second and said exactly what I knew he would say, “ I don’t know”.
Now, I don’t know what your belief system is nor am I privy to your specific model of the world. After all, as the saying goes “there is no reality only perception”. But for a moment, I invite you to enter my reality or personal delusion and walk with me.
There is an axiom, which I believe and it applies to one’s personal life as well as business. ‘Who you are, is whom you attract.’ There is a common perception that you as a business owner will just go forth and find the kinds of people you want and the truth is it really doesn’t work that way. Yes you can have a laundry list of qualities and objective qualifications but in the end most often you draw people who possess the same qualities you do. The inverse of this truth also applies, you will attract individuals who also possess the same challenges. Are there exceptions to this concept? Hell yes! And you can be assured barring conscious interference the rule will win out more often than not.
We can list off the keys to success after all most of you know them. However, there is one crucial part few talk about … Self image.
When I say to you:
“Who are you?”
What comes into your mind ?
If you answered I’m a ( state your race) ( state your sex) ( state your age).
[i.e. ( white male 45)]
Sorry *buzzer sound* Guess again.
Annoying isn’t it?
So many people go through life and they not only don’t know who they are, but also don’t know what they stand for? If you don’t know who you really are as a person, have a clear sense of defined self then in essence, you are lost and you’re just going through the motions. I dare even say, you my friend are just existing.
OK, lets say then the latter is true, here you are in your life and you’ve just discovered you are lost. Sadly, this didn’t just happen and if you’re married that relationship most likely is just a daily habit or at worse yet another obligation. Some people by the way define this as a sell out marriage those of you who are in one you KNOW exactly what I’m talking about so stop the denial.
What?
You think you’re alone?
You think I don’t take calls every day from individuals like yourself who just for a moment want a respite from our collective male world of “obligation”? Sorry bud, but if your reading my blog for a pity party you knocked on the wrong door.
The world around you, the world you have manifested and created for yourself is but a reflection of your inner world of self. Therefore, in my model of the world if I am not happy, if I’m lost and not getting the results I want in life I (Lee Dreams) am accountable.
If you accept this empowering premise, then you also know you can change it.
Self-image is one of the determinants of success and failure in life. One of the elements of training for Dreams people is the concept of self-image and the ideal self. Ideal self is the personality we would like to be. It consists of our goals and ambitions, and is dynamic in nature. Then there is the perceived self of how one sees themselves and finally the real self of who you really are.
The best escorts (top 10%) have a solid and positive image of self. Granted many of them don’t come through the door that way, but by the time you see them my training goal is they will. After all, how do you think Dreams women are able to give you that zone of respite, retreat and reprieve from the daily wearing grind of burden and obligation we as a men are born to carry for that hour or three hours so effectively? Not to put a fine point on it guys however if you got that at home, I wouldn’t be in business. This business helps many of you be the top notch protectors and providers which is our duty as men to be.
Being lost doesn’t make you a bad person, it also doesn’t make you a failure, it makes you human. The way out begins with a simple little tenant I teach my own people.
You have to like yourself.
Every morning you get up, you look in the mirror and you say, “I like myself” over an over and you mean it. Do it while driving, while running and before that meeting. GET WORKED UP IN A FRENZY. This is where it begins because if you think about it, when you invest in yourself by seeing a Dreams Escort isn’t that part of the reason? To spend a short time in a relaxing atmosphere where you can enjoy, surrender and like yourself?
Think about it, you don’t come to see us for uncertainty, hostility, indifference and isolation, now do you?
The most astute Dreams Escort understands this simple principle:
“Attitude and personality are as important as experience and ability. Choose wisely. ”
-Brian Tracy-
So George my man… you want to change your business, first tell yourself “you like yourself”, say it, mean it, feel it! Then honestly and truly find out who you are and most importantly what do you stand for as a man, soul and business owner. Once you’ve started down that path, I know with absolute certainty things at the shop will turn themselves around.
In the meantime, how about a 3 hour session with Alexandra?!! She has this hot bath and rub down that will cause a spiritual revival in you.
